Class #4
Ettiquettes of Seeking Permission to Enter and Meeting Another
Muslim (third and fourth chapters in the The Book of Manners by
Fu’ad Ibn ‘Abdul-‘Azeez Ash-Shulhoob – publisher: Darussalam)
Permission to Enter
1. Ayat and
Hadith
2. Greet
first, then ask permission
3. Stand to
the right or left of the door
4. Seeking
permission to enter up to 3 times
5. Answer
with your name when asked who is it
6. When
leaving a gathering ask permission
Meeting Another Muslim
7. Recommended
to shake one’s hand
a. Shaking
hands after the fard prayer -- bidah
b. Shaking
hand with non—Muharam (someone marriageable)
8. Standing
up when someone arrives
9. Hugging
and Kissing when meeting
10.
Forbidden to bow or prostrate to a human or
anything else
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Class #5
Etiquettes of Visiting Your Brother, The Host and the Guest, and
Gatherings (fifth, sixth and seventh chapters in the The Book of Manners
by Fu’ad Ibn ‘Abdul-‘Azeez Ash-Shulhoob – publisher: Darussalam)
Etiquettes when Visiting your Brother
Etiquettes of The Host and the Guest
1. Accepting
and answering an invitation
2. Honoring
your guest
a. serve eldest first
b. serve right to left
a. serve eldest first
b. serve right to left
3. Accompany
guest to the door –
Etiquettes of Gatherings
1. Attending
gatherings where Allah is mentioned
2. Choosing
your friends
3. Greet
when joining and leaving a gathering
4. Making
space in a gathering
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Class #6
Etiquettes of Gatherings (cont.) and The
Manners of Speech (seventh and eighth chapters in the The Book of Manners by
Fu’ad Ibn ‘Abdul-‘Azeez Ash-Shulhoob – publisher: Darussalam)
1. Three
people together talking don’t exclude one
2. Listening
to people’s conversation without their consent
3. Forbidden
to sit half in the sun and half in the shade
4. Laughter
in moderation
5. Closing
dua for a gathering
The Manners of Speech
1. Preserving
one’s tongue
2. Speak
good or remain silent
3. Not
talking too much
4. Backbiting
and Slander
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